We have stayed at Oxbow for the last five years in the summer.
You will be hard pressed to find nicer people and the location is great. Tropical setting with the marina protected from foul weather and boat waves. Would highly recommend to anyone visiting the Delta.
Oxbow
Close to Stockton and Discovery Bay can be fun as long as you are just cruising and not wanting to swim or do water sports. The closer to these areas you get the more boats there are which means there will be some boaters that you need to be watching out for. Stockton has great guest docks which we have stayed at before. There are also some fun restaurants / bars in the area
For water sports we spend most of our time near the B & W / Tower Part areas. I keep our ski boat at Delta Boat Storage which is at B&W Resort. Have had it there for the last 7 or 8 years now. Great service and a nice location for water sports. They also have cabins there. I have never stayed there but have friends that have that enjoyed there stay.
Water Sports
The Meadows is a great trip. It is way up the Delta past Walnut Grove on the San Joaquin side. Beautiful area and a good place to anchor.
We don't eat out a lot while on the Delta, mostly BBQ in the evenings, but when we do eat out we really like Giusti's.
Giusti's Guest Dock. We have stayed there quite a few times, they have fabulous food and a beautiful area on the water.
That's my quick run down.
Kris