here the code with > and < replaced with ) and ( to make teh code show instead of the clip. I just click on the embed link under the video (under share, tag, edit, etc...) and copy / paste the code
(object width="400:300" )(param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /)(param name="movie" value="http://www.facebook.com/v/1801860573601" /)(embed src="http://www.facebook.com/v/1801860573601" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="400:300")(/embed)(/object)