Andy,
I never said I was invisible, quite the contrary, actually. I've said before, go to google and type in blouderback, you'll probably get my home address, cell and home phone number, birthday, wife and kids names, the church I belong to, company I work for, etc. I think people who post in anonymity are cowards. I'm not afraid to let people know who I am.
My PMs to you and others were in response to your sarcastic and down-right mean spirited comments to my honest question. I chose to do it as a Private Message to keep it PRIVATE, you chose to make it public.