Anyone remember the incident in San Diego Harbor, where a sailboat went in front of a Navy
Submarine (who was surfaced), then when the sailboat realized where he was, he somehow sailed in front of a Navy surface vessel (over 500 ft as I recall) who hit him. There was a photo of the sailboat at about the moment of impact.
Seems like the sailboat "pilot" sued and lost.
I mention this as someone mentioned being "T-Boned" by a large vessel is bad news. The Air Force had a safety bulletin many years ago (on riding motorcycles on the streets), but it said something like: "You may be right, but don't be dead right." I concur. And we all know it can take miles for a large vessel to stop.
In retrospect, due to the size of the ship, I was probably about 100 yards, or perhaps 101 yards from their starboard side.
As for Navy and CG ships...I found two out of two who were not monitoring Ch 16. One boarded us recently and the other, a good sized ship, admitted they were not monitoring ch 16. I had the opportunity to speak with them about it. Very nice guys, both groups, but they had other priorities at that time. Having flown in the Air Force many years I fully understand how military radio protocols can look good on paper, but the reality of the situations we ran into required temporary changes.