Essex Island Marina is the place to go. If you arrive on a Friday, take their shuttle ferry to Essex, a 2min ride and walk up the street and check out the "Gris" it's actually The Griswold Inn Hotel and Restaurant. Fri. Nights is banjo night and it's loads of fun. People making noise, sometimes throwing popcorn, playing spoons and just having a blast. You'd never guess when you first walk in. Oh and by the way, the food and service in the dinning room is good!